Nerves Problems? You Are Not Alone

 

Nerves Problems?  You Are Not Alone

One thing people never talk about is nerves.  Those little butterflies that creep into your stomach and the shacking of the hands when things get tough? Nerves impact every game from League to the NFL. It doesn’t matter who you are, nerves can cause you to fail when you normally would succeed. The most important question is, how do you deal with them?

Imagine the nerves if you were here!

 WHY NERVES STAND OUT NOW

Nerves are a common part of playing competitive games/sports and I have been hit hard by them lately.  I have not really played League of Legends in months.  A game here or there but I mainly have not played for 3 months.  Did I expect my mechanical skills to drop?  Absolutely!  Did I expect to be nervous when I play normal games?  Not so much.  Last hitting use to be easy, but not only am I missing those blasted minions because my timing is off, but because my hands are not responding the way I want them too.  It is time to face the problem head on.

WHAT TO DO ABOUT NERVES 

Before the Game:

  • Nerves happen to everyone.  When you are going out to compete, everyone feels some level of jitters.  It is completely normal and you know that it really happens during promotion matches. 

  • Go through a sort of “warm-up.”  This can be light exercise just to get your blood moving, this can be last hitting practice but some kind of pre-game preparation.

  • Visualize yourself performing perfectly.  Breathe deeply and speak positively to yourself with a prepared plan.  “I am going to be great and focus on getting every CS I can.”  “That guy is going down and I am going to snowball the other lanes.”

During the Game

  • Focus on the task at hand.  Ignore things like “We are going to lose, mid is feeding” and focus entirely on your own game.  Focus on getting all the farm you can, focus on not dying and focus on your own actions in the moment.  The present is a lot easier to deal with than trying to deal with the past, present and future. 

  • Force a smile.  I know it sounds ridiculous but our mental state is physical as well.  A smile will help break negative thought cycles so that you can focus on the task at hand. 

  • Play like you do not care about the outcome.  When you are nervous, you are usually nervous about an outcome.  If you do not care about the outcome, then what are you so nervous about?  It is a GAME.  Unless you are in the LCS, League of Legends is a game, it is ok to think about it like one!

After the Game

  • Review the game.  This sounds like a broken record regarding advice but take a moment to review your decisions, actions and the outcomes.

  • Acknowledge, but quickly dismiss things that hindered your performance.  Recognize when you messed up, but then focus on what you did well.  If all you ever think about is how you failed, then you will only ever figure out how to not fail.  The goal is to not fail, but to succeed.  Focus on the things that let you do that.

  • Training programs to mimic the situations.  This can be difficult but if you are having issues focusing on something, play a bot game and practice your spell rotations, last-hitting, whatever.  Until Riot creates a training room, we all have to make do.  (Anyone want to start a petition?)  

Wrap-Up

Nerves were not the aspect I thought would hinder my game as much as it has.  But nerves can be overcome and these guidelines from sports psychology should help.  Next time I play a game, I hope I do not suck! 


About the Author, Emeraldw:

  • Loves psychology and philosophy.  Then tries to apply it to even simple things like League of Legends. 
  • Cookies and Ice Cream have been known to buy Emeraldw's loyalty and affection.
  • Basics are the most important thing in learning anything
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If you have any comments or ideas for future articles, please send me a message and I will be happy to communicate with you! 

 

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Comments

  • #23 ohGr

    I feel like a dork for knowing that title image is TSM when it's only the backs of their heads. From left to right it's OddOne, Regi, Dyrus, Xpecial, and Chaox. (Has to be a s2 picture)

  • #22 hamstermp

    Hi, I used to get emotional bout them games, but now I rarely care. As a wannabe psychologist and someone who meditates I can give you the advice that helped me. You have to realize on a deep level that your KDA or win rate doesnt mean ANYTHING about YOU. We tend to judge people by their performance but you have to stop. Dont compare yourself to others cuz there will always be someone better at this or that. You can never win a comparison game and this applies to all things in life. You can enjoy the fact that you earn 40.000$ a year, but after seeing someone who earns 90.000$ u get jelly. Compare yourself only to yourself. Ask yourself- what did I improve? What did I learn this game?

    Hope it helps!

  • #19 BeaverFresh

    In my experience, the worst part is before the game.. Once you start playing you kinda zone out the people watching you and everything else.. you're just too involved in the game at hand. So don't get over worried before the match even starts!

  • #18 CarryHard

    What about the cold, shaky hands before ranked? Does a simple handwarmer suffice (like the ones koreans use before matches)? Or is it a mental thing as well?

    Last edited by CarryHard: 1/6/2014 5:28:17 PM
  • #20 Emeraldw

    That is a mental thing.  If you were really cold, why show up right before a match?  That said, if you think something will work, it will.  Tricking your mind through your body is not that difficult.  

    In this case, it is more likely about blood flow.  Muscles that are warm have increased blood flow and greater relaxed muscles.  

    In wrestling practice the room was kept at an unusually high temperature for just this reason.  It helped increase flexibility and reduce injuries.   

  • #21 Jonnynomore

    Ha! I was also a wrestler in HS.  If you want to talk about nerves before an event people should try going 1 on 1 in front of a crowd wearing spandex!

  • #14 Jonnynomore

    Good article!  To expand on the "forcing a smile" sentiment.  There are things researchers call "power poses" that people naturally do when feeling dominant.  This includes standing with your arms on your hips, leaning back with your hands on the back of your head with your elbows out, or sitting with your legs spread wide.  The cool thing is researchers have found that just holding those poses for a minute will release hormones that make you feel more confident.  How long does a loading screen last?  Perfect amount of time for a little mental boost!

  • #17 Emeraldw
    Quote from Jonnynomore »

    Good article!  To expand on the "forcing a smile" sentiment.  There are things researchers call "power poses" that people naturally do when feeling dominant.  This includes standing with your arms on your hips, leaning back with your hands on the back of your head with your elbows out, or sitting with your legs spread wide.  The cool thing is researchers have found that just holding those poses for a minute will release hormones that make you feel more confident.  How long does a loading screen last?  Perfect amount of time for a little mental boost!

    Yes! I forgot about that recent article. 

    I am all for the "Superman!"

  • #13 Blocki1337

    All the feels man

  • #11 JonathonSnow

    Ignore the asshat grammar nazis (and I write for a living). It was a good article and I appreciate the advice.

    I have found that, as odd as it sounds, doing jumping jacks right before a big game calms me down and gets me in the right frame of mind.

  • #16 Emeraldw

    There's actually some decent evidence to show that exercise can help improve gaming performance.  You have your adrenaline going and your mind is focused from the exercise.  in fact...someone might have written an article about exercise and gaming...

    http://www.reignofgaming.net/blogs/a-different-view/emeraldw/22066-the-wellness-project-exercising-can-help-you-carry

    :D

  • #9 iP4thy

    beforegame:

    “I am going to be great and focus on getting every CS I can.

    after 10minutes

    "fuck i miss 50% cs couse this troll support dont help me, f*** this game, gg ff afk" :D

     

  • #8 Sparx1080

    Good post, thanks Emeraldw! Have you written anything about players on "tilt" or those types of scenarios? I would love to hear your thoughts on that.

  • #15 Emeraldw
    Quote from Sparx1080 »

    Good post, thanks Emeraldw! Have you written anything about players on "tilt" or those types of scenarios? I would love to hear your thoughts on that.

    Tilt could be viewed as a form of extreme nerves.  Basically you have lost all focus, save for one thing.  What can cause it is numerous but some things that can help combat it are:

    Smiles!

    10 second slow breathing exercise

    Focus on something entirely separate from the issue making you "tilt"

    Tilting for me is usually when something is not going my way, when it should.  At that point I have to disconnect myself from my expectations and focus on reality. 

  • #4 Emeraldw

    Bah, I'm not an english major.  Fixed.

  • #6 OuterRaven
    Quote from Emeraldw »

    Bah, I'm not an english major.  Fixed.

    English isn't even my main language and I very rarely mix "you're" with "your". It's all about applying your inner grammar nazi on yourself.

  • #7 Emeraldw
    Quote from OuterRaven »
    Quote from Emeraldw »

    Bah, I'm not an english major.  Fixed.

    English isn't even my main language and I very rarely mix "you're" with "your". It's all about applying your inner grammar nazi on yourself.

    I've gotten better about it but it is my grammatical flaw.  I own up to it and I often go back and fix it when it happens. 

  • #10 iP4thy
    Quote from OuterRaven »
    Quote from Emeraldw »

    Bah, I'm not an english major.  Fixed.

    English isn't even my main language and I very rarely mix "you're" with "your". It's all about applying your inner grammar nazi on yourself.

    dudes talk to me dat my english sux after i talk to them, but....... if they understand what i said anyway.... why should i try more, its only game not president elections ._.

  • #3 ratzing

    SRSLY? Your? WTF.

    Last edited by ratzing: 1/6/2014 2:35:58 PM
  • #5 OuterRaven
    Quote from ratzing »

    SRSLY? Your? WTF.

    Why so surprised? He has been misusing you're/your in every single one of his articles since he was hired. Numerous people have brought this to his attention since it makes his articles look unprofessional but meh.

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